Probably one of the greatest things about college is meeting new people that will become your friends. It can seem intimidating at first but it’s not as hard as you think. With friends, everything will be much easier. From classes, events, extracurriculars, to dorm life. Name it, your friends got you.
Having new friends introduces you to new adventures and perspectives. College is the best time for you to grow as the person that you have always wanted to be and your friends will help you get through there. Here are some ways on how you can make new friends while in college:
1. Be open-minded
Being open-minded is an important step in understanding different kinds of people. College is a diverse environment where you will meet people from all walks of life. So, take the chance to get to know people and be open-minded about them.
Refrain from judging someone based on first impression or appearance. Avoid stereotypes as it will only hinder you from getting to know a person well.
College is full of events that you will enjoy such as concerts, dance parties, game nights, theater shows, and more. This is a great way to meet new friends who enjoy the same fun things as you. Make the most out of these social gatherings to embrace the community and build some relationships.
3. Join clubs
Clubs are probably one of the easiest ways to find friends who share your interests. Find friends in community service, movie lovers club, football fans, and even chess enthusiasts. Clubs are diverse, and you can choose which one of those matches your passions and hobbies. These organizations hold meetings quite often and seeing members frequently helps build strong friendships.
4. Sit by a random person
Have the courage to sit beside a student or two at the gym, cafeteria, class, or an event. Sit by them instead of claiming an empty table. Introduce yourself and engage in small talk. A friendship is a two-way process. You won’t have a new friend unless you make the first move.
5. Get to know your neighbors
Your neighbors are probably the first ones you’ll know on campus. As you move in, they will introduce themselves and make you feel at home. At school, you’re going to see them a lot. Sure, you will build familiarity by exchanging “hellos” in the hallways, but it wouldn’t hurt to knock on your neighbors’ doors. Plan a movie night in the common room, share foods, and invite more people to join in.
6. Be yourself
It is a cliché for a good reason. Staying true to yourself will attract the right people to be your friends. Reassess your friendship if they force you to change just to fit in with the group. Don’t be afraid to say no. People who put peer pressure on you to do something uncomfortable don’t make for good friends. Remember that a true friend will never force you to change who you are. They will accept and respect the real you.
College is your chance to be free, to live in the moment. So, take note of this list, go out there, and make new best friends.
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